On dependability and friendship

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photo credit: ahmadzamri

Despite my hectic schedule and super busy life, those who know me well know that I try really hard to always be there for my friends and loved ones. I place a lot of value in the idea of dependability. This year, I faced some really, really tough times and I got through those thanks in part to a few selected individuals whom I consider dear friends who have had my back. These have been people who have been there in moments when I have doubted myself, who have given me tips, recommendations, a helping hand in a time of need.

People who have been key in helping me turn what otherwise would have been a disastrous year. Admittedly, I firmly believe that one gets back from the universe what one puts out, and I would like to believe that I put out good energy for the universe. As I sent out a tweet this morning, I think it definitely captured the way I feel and my philosophy of life:

I like my coffee black, my martinis strong and my friends dependable
– Raul aka @Hummingbird604

Comments (3)

TeresaNovember 16th, 2009 at 5:51 pm

Love the quote. And I’m fortunate to have made so many new friends in the last few years. And we became good friends because we have core common values: dependability, trust, honesty, humour, and most importantly, loyalty.

Yukari PeerlessNovember 16th, 2009 at 7:27 pm

What a great post. I also went throught tough times myself and I do feel so lucky to have my friends. What do we do without them?

JaniceNovember 22nd, 2009 at 11:51 pm

Great post Raul! After a hard slog for us over the past 1 1/2 years, and seeing some light at the end of it all, I totally agree with your observation about getting back what you put out there.

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