While having seafood really makes me miss Vancouver, I can’t praise Los Arcos Restaurant enough, and it is a restaurant I am going to recommend thoroughly (it also happens to be conveniently located 1 minute and 30 seconds drive from my house, in Aguascalientes). One of the most recent branches of the Los Arcos Restaurant chain (there’s one in San Diego, in the US, and several in Mexico), this is a fantastic place for seafood.
Not expensive (any dish is anywhere between $90 pesos and $170 pesos, close to $9-17 USD), and really abundant, I went there with my colleagues for lunch to celebrate our day. I ordered a couple of Tacos Bonita (soft flour tortillas filled with spicy shrimp cut in pieces, $30 pesos), and a Salmon a la Diabla (which was $170 pesos, and amazing if I may say so myself).
Oh, and who can discount the most excellent tamarind Margaritas ($50 pesos)?
The decor is cute, with a Mexican coastal flavour, and there’s plenty of space of kids.
Overall, it was a fantastic experience and I would definitely recommend it and come back again. And desserts were just as amazing. The service? Top notch.
Disclosure: My institution treated us to lunch. As always I retain full editorial control over anything I post on my blog.
I’m someone who thinks in a very visual way, and who visualizes his life in “Kodak moments”. I think the song that would be closest to my favorite to be played as the background of my life, currently, is Exotica by George Benson. Perhaps one of the richest, more complex, and nuanced smooth jazz song I have ever had the pleasure of listening to, Exotica certainly embodies the soundtrack of a life like mine: full of exciting sounds, flowy, flirtatious, ethereal at times, and deeply rich other times. For your listening pleasure, Exotica by George Benson (from YouTube).
As a new resident of the city of Aguascalientes, I can’t claim that I have done everything folks do when living in Aguascalientes. But one of the things I knew about the city even before moving here was that this was where the biggest fair in Mexico took place, the Feria Nacional de San Marcos (Saint Marcus’ National Fair). The fair itself is incredibly busy because it’s super big. Instead of being located just in one big area (like the Leon Fair), it encompasses a vast majority of downtown Aguascalientes, through the longest corridor (from the Isla San Marcos, a small island that has a little lake and a large set of rides, all the way through to the Feria San Marcos official site, near J.M. Elizondo and Lopez Mateos.
Photo credit: Gobierno de Aguascalientes
There are a lot of activities in Aguascalientes during the Feria Nacional de San Marcos, although the problem for me is that because it’s so crowded, it becomes really overwhelming. Nevertheless, I think it’s worth visiting.
Most people who read my blog know that I have danced salsa professionally and that I taught salsa in my younger years. Recently, I had the opportunity to dance salsa again, at my cousin’s wedding, and I danced one of the songs I always loved: La Cita (the date) by Galy Galiano. Galiano, a Colombian singer, popularized salsa (somewhat ironic since salsa isn’t really Colombian) to an extent beyond what many other salsa singers had achieved. La Cita (the date) is a song about a man who arranges a blind date with his cheating (female, in his case) partner. The lyrics have a bit of a sting, considering that in one of the phrases, Galiano writes “so, come now, get naked and turn off the light for an instant, and make love to me the way you do with your lovers. I swear that today is the last time you laugh at me and cheat on me”. While not thrilled with the actual content of the lyrics, the music is astounding, so I hereby present to you: La Cita by Galy Galiano.
* Lyrics in Spanish in case you’re interested (Source: Music dot Com)*
Pasa y siéntate, tranquilízate
al fin ya estás aquí, qué más te da
Imagínate, que yo no soy yo
que soy el otro hombre que esperabas ver
Un desconocido que te ha escrito verso
y te dibujó la luna, en un trozo de papel
Un amante improvisado,
misterioso, apasionado
que te dió una cita, en este hotel
Desnúdate ahora
y apaga la luz un instante
y hazme el amor, como lo haces
con esos amantes
Te juro que hoy es la última vez
que te burlas de mí
que me engañas
Y fueron mis manos
las que te escribieron la carta
Han sido mis celos
los que te pusieron la trampa
y es mi corazón
el que llora de pena por dentro
Pero te dejo y me marcho, para siempre
Imagínate, que yo no soy yo
que soy el otro hombre que esperabas ver
Un desconocido que te ha escrito verso
y te dibujó la luna, en un trozo de papel
Un amante improvisado,
misterioso, apasionado
que te dió una cita, en este hotel
Desnúdate ahora
y apaga la luz un instante
y hazme el amor, como lo haces
con esos amantes
Te juro que hoy es la última vez
que te burlas de mí
que me engañas
Y fueron mis manos
las que te escribieron la carta
Han sido mis celos
los que te pusieron la trampa
y es mi corazón
el que llora de pena por dentro
Pero te dejo y me marcho, para siempre
Desnudate ahora y apaga la luz un instante
y hazme el amor como lo haces con esos amantes
Te juro que hoy es la última vez
que te burlas de mí
que me engañas y me hieres
Y fueron mis manos
las que te escribieron la carta
Han sido mis celos
los que te pusieron la trampa
Fue sorpresa para ti,
hallarme en el cuarto
en lugar de tu amante
palideciste y te pusiste muy nerviosa
Desnudate ahora y apaga la luz un instante
y hazme el amor como lo haces con esos amantes
Es mi corazón el que llora
de pena por dentro,
pero me marcho para siempre, para siempre
Y fueron mis manos
las que te escribieron la carta
Han sido mis celos
los que te pusieron la trampa
Imagina que soy tu mejor amante
hazme el amor y luego adios
One of the challenges of moving to a new city and being a host to foreign visitors (well, so far all Canadian and all from Vancouver) is that very little is available in the way of English-language information for foreign visitors in the state of Aguascalientes (or the city of Aguascalientes, for that matter). And whatever little is available is usually not presented in the best form. So I have now come to realize that I am the one who will have to write in English about the wonderful things there are for foreign, English-speaking visitors who might come to Aguascalientes, either to visit me or to visit on their own, much as I did for Vancouver, and British Columbia.
One of the things that I was told was a must-see was to travel north-west of the city of Aguascalientes to a little town called San Jose de Gracia, which is the home to the largest dam in central Mexico (the Presa Plutarco Elias Calles). From the outset, when you arrive to San Jose de Gracia (you need to drive north towards Zacatecas and turn left once you arrive to Pabellon de Arteaga and drive towards San Jose de Gracia), you would think that the dam is actually a reservoir or a lake. But once you are almost in the midst of it, you can totally see the wall of the dam. It is within this dam that the island of the Broken Christ (el Cristo Roto) is located.
The Broken Christ has an associated legend with it (notes in Spanish from the Wikipedia page) and a poem as well. Legend says that around the independence of Mexico time, when the image arrived into the church in San Jose de Gracia, it arrived broken, and that it spoke told the would-be seller to leave him broken so that he would always have a reminder to think about his brothers and sisters without opportunities, without limbs. While I’m not really religious anymore, I found the inscription incredibly motivating and humbling.
To get to the Broken Christ island, you need to take a little boat (I took Airdrie when she visited me and JT when he came down just a couple of weeks ago as well as my Mom, so in total I’ve visited 3 times).
The area is well staffed and transportation is really inexpensive ($28 Mexican pesos or less than $2.50 USD per person per trip). Obviously you can also rent cabins, and a longer ferry trip which costs about $200 pesos per person or so. There is a restaurant (Las Playas) and several smaller places for food. There is also a little bit of an artificial beach, and the Island of the Broken Christ is considered a must-visit in Mexico when visiting Aguascalientes.
Overall, I enjoyed visiting the Broken Christ Island, and so did every single one of my guests. So I would strongly recommend that if you visit the city of Aguascalientes you take a chance to come visit. You can also get to San Jose de Gracia by small van or “pesera” as they are called in Mexico.
May 3rd marks both a joyous day (my brother’s day) and a really sad one (my dear friend Derek K. Miller’s passing). As regular readers of my blog will know, Derek blogged for 4 years about his stage 4 metastatic cancer. Derek’s Last Post went viral with over 16 million hits in less than a week. Derek’s wife Airdrie is one of my best friends (and she recently came to visit me in Aguascalientes). Thinking of Derek always gives me happy thoughts and I miss him terribly. Derek, missing you today. Air, L, M, Hilkka and Karl, I’m thinking of you today too. Much love always.
My Dad and I had a lovely conversation this morning as we walked through the downtown core of the city of Leon. We were commenting on the incredible gap between my standards of living in Vancouver as compared to Aguascalientes. He was extremely happy that I have “moved up” and gotten closer in standards of living to what I deserve. For starters, I didn’t have a car in Vancouver. I lived in a one-bedroom apartment that was 450 sq ft or less (rented). In Aguascalientes, I have a three bedroom, 1 1/2 bathroom, front yard, backyard terrace house. I own a car. My office in Mexico is about three times the size of my office in Canada. And let’s not talk about the salary increase (which was substantial).
The Aguascalientes cathedral. Photo credit: Christian y Sergio
For many years, I’ve had the same conversation with many Mexicans who either want to immigrate to Canada or simply want to leave Mexico. Some of them, live in Canada in conditions that I would call below the poverty line. The housing situation in Vancouver is absolutely insane (read my friend Melissa’s blog, The Thirties Grind, just to read more absurdity of real estate prices in Vancouver). Why would some people choose to stay in Vancouver as opposed to move elsewhere to make a better life is NOT beyond me. I loved Vancouver. I lived there for more than a decade, and I was happy. VERY HAPPY.
A sunset in Vancouver as seen from North Vancouver’s Lonsdale Quay. My own photo.
But my life here is incredibly fulfilling and rewarding, and I feel that my standards of living are much higher here than there. For one, I can’t stand the rain. I tolerated it for more than 10 years, but I suffered extremely profound SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) which affected my productivity. Here, I have sunshine. I have family, friends. Obviously I miss Vancouver, and as I blogged before, I have always lived grand wherever I’ve been. For two, I can’t stand Vancouver’s incredibly expensive status, and terribly low salaries. For three, I now can offer visitors who come and visit me a much nicer experience than I could offer when folks visited me in Canada.
I do feel a substantial increase in my standard of living since moving back to Mexico. Of course, I miss my friends. I miss the water. I miss my social life and some times (not often, though) the status I had as a “social media celebrity”. But overall, I am pretty happy here and I feel that I have moved up, instead of moving down. I am happy I moved.
Normally, I wouldn’t even dare to eat Argentinian food that wasn’t at El Rincón Gaucho, a restaurant in the city where my parents live, but a friend of mine wanted to meet me for lunch and the closest restaurant to my house was Mamatango, an Argentinian restaurant, so we went there. I had already been to Mamatango when a colleague of ours left and we were bidding him farewell.
Generally speaking, I love the food, and while it’s on the higher end of the scale in terms of pricing, it’s not unaffordable (probably $150-$200 Mexican pesos per entree). This time I played it safe and had a pasta Diavolo Duo, fetuccine with shrimp and salmon, and a touch of pomodoro sauce.
The restaurant is very spacious and the service is very solid, although it took them a really long time to bring us the bill. It also has a separate room for when you have a larger group, although it’s not very private as it is like a fishbowl, everyone can see into the room (it has glass all over). Mamatango also has a small area for children to play in.
Overall, I would definitely come back to Mamatango, whenever I have a lunch that is more or less official or when I have to treat a friend to a nice lunch.
Disclosure: My friend treated the both of us to lunch and he paid on his own dime. As always I retain full editorial control over anything I post on my blog.
You know what surprises me the most about Aguascalientes? Just about no business at all have their own website. In my past few posts, I’ve been linking to their Foursquare location or their Facebook page. This is really bad. Particularly because I think many of the businesses I’ve been patronizing in the past few months should have a basic website, and of course, some basic social media presence. One of the shocking ones is Cafe Casa Vieja, a lovely (and HUGE) coffee place in the heart of Aguascalientes, which should totally have a beautiful website.
Even though I tried really hard, I’m not 100% certain that my photos do justice to the gorgeous decor of Cafe Casa Vieja. The coffee is great, don’t get me wrong, but I think it’s the atmosphere and absolutely beautiful decoration that makes the place.
This is the kind of place where I would very happily bring a foreigner (and so far I’ve brought 2, one Canadian and one American) to have a coffee and just chill.
My frozen capuccino was delicious, although it was also super sweet. But overall, the one thing I enjoyed the most was the atmosphere and ambience. It’s an old house, certainly, but the owners have done their job in maintaining it.
Disclosure: I paid for both my coffee and that of my friends who have visited Cafe Casa Vieja with me.
I’ve got a fascination with houses that are turned into businesses ever since I was a child. The northern part of the city of Aguascalientes (in particular the Bosques neighbourhood) is filled with these. I recently went with a colleague to visit Grandmas Tea House and Crochet, which is located in a converted large house in the northern side of Aguascalientes.
What makes Grandmas Tea House and Crochet very unique is that it’s not only a tea room. It also sells knitting supplies and they offer lessons. Yes, literally. Like you were asking your grandma for advice on knitting. Or as though you wanted to bring your grandma here to have tea and knit.
I found the rooms spacious, was delighted at the quirky display of knitting supplies (yarn, needles, everything). I also found out my colleague does know how to knit (several men I know DO know how to knit, now that I come to think about it).
I just couldn’t get over the yarn supplies. Seriously, this is a fantastic place to learn how to knit (something I don’t know how to do to this day).
There is a number of quirky mementos here all related to knitting.
Overall, a nice place where to bring people for tea and cookies, and maybe learn to knit. I had a juice and my friend had a coffee, and overall, the experience was super sweet. Next time I come I need to check out the knitting lessons.
Disclosure:As always, I paid my dinner off of my own pocket. I did not get any special treatment nor any freebies
You’d probably be right to think “why would Raul decide to eat bagels if he’s pretty much unable to chew because of his braces?“. Yeah, you were right. And I wasn’t thinking straight. The mere thought of eating a bagel the way I used to do in Vancouver just got the best of me. And the fact that this lovely “New American” restaurant, Los Bagels, is located very near to my house (a 2-3 minutes drive).
So yeah, I ordered a bagel and I proceeded to destroy it. But at least I took pretty pictures of it! Pretty inexpensive (maybe on the higher end of pricing for a Mexican place, about $55 pesos), and filled with delicious chicken, I was thrilled to find out that, had I not had braces, Los Bagels would be my new favorite place for lunch. The bagel was cooked to perfection, the chicken was well seasoned, and it was an abundant portion.
Overall, a lovely place. I will have to come back in well, about a couple of years when I get the braces off.
Disclosure:As always, I paid my dinner off of my own pocket. I did not get any special treatment nor any freebies
You know when you find Japanese people at a Japanese restaurant serving sushi that you will get great food (or at least, reasonable). As a Mexican, I felt heartened when I visited a Mexican restaurant and saw fellow Mexicans in the same restaurant. It made me feel that it was perhaps solid enough. That was the case with Yotsuba (a cute sushi restaurant located in the northern part of the city of Aguascalientes
(The actual address is: Prolongación Zaragoza 210 in Plaza Privilege, Col. Fatima. I recently went there with 3 colleagues and we ordered a few sushi dishes. As I normally do with anything that is sushi-specific, I went for California rolls and spicy tuna rolls. The latter were disappointing not because of the flavor but because they are not done the way Canadian ones are. I am heading to Tokyo later this year so I’ll compare. The California rolls were very flavourful and I loved them almost as much as Momo Sushi in Vancouver (which is high praise!)
I ordered an additional roll with an external cover of cucumber, which although was nice, I wasn’t completely sold on. But still, this is perhaps the best sushi place in the entire Aguascalientes. I am totally becoming a fan. It’s also relatively close (5-7 minutes drive) from my house.
Disclosure:As always, I paid my dinner off of my own pocket. I did not get any special treatment nor any freebies
If you follow me on Twitter, or are my friend on Facebook, you probably know that I got braces installed in December of 2012. Yeah. At this age, I decided to get teeth surgery (I had the four wisdom teeth removed at the same time, and thus needed endodonthics). I also got braces (and no, I didn’t get Invisalign. I got the full metal deal!). And like with anything new, I share how I feel with the world. Not always painless, let me tell you.
So why do I make such a big deal of having braces? After all, most teenagers had them at one point (though it’s deeply refreshing to read friends of mine who got braces installed after they became 40!). Well, because to me, having braces is a daily reminder that I MATTER. That I care about myself. That I am my own priority. And I live a transparent life. If my braces hurt, I’m going to tell you if you’re riding with me while I drive us somewhere. I am going to tweet about it, I’m going to post about it on Facebook.
Getting braces will improve my physical appearance, will fix problems with my eating habits, and will make me feel way more self-confident when I smile. So, as painful as they are, and as much cutting I’m getting inside my mouth (OUCH) and as much as I am not able to eat just about anything (the list of things I can’t eat is way longer than the list of things I CAN eat), every time I spend 20 minutes brushing my teeth, using all sorts of contraptions to clean up each bracket, etc., I remind myself of the fact that I love myself enough to force myself to go through the process of getting braces. I am also paying for my braces on my own.
So, please forgive the frequent Facebook, Twitter and blog posts about braces. Braces are my new reality, and a demonstration of self-care. A daily reminder that I matter, and that I am my own priority.
It’s always hard to try and showcase a city and a state (the Mexican equivalent of a province) when you are pretty much a recent transplant. So when my good friend Air came to visit me in Aguascalientes, it was a bit difficult to think of what to do. I asked a colleague of mine at work and he recommended to visit the Hacienda de Letras vineyard and hacienda. While not exactly in the city of Aguascalientes, but a little up north, 20 minutes drive to be exact, or even less, in the small municipality of Pabellon de Arteaga, Hacienda de Letras is a lovely day visit.
We walked through the property and visited the vineyard. Obviously we didn’t see actual blooming vineyards (and couldn’t taste the grapes), but when the time comes, I’ll probably come back to check it out.
We did walk around the property and enjoyed a quick walking tour of the facilities for wine production.
You can purchase a full tour and a 3 glasses-flight tasting for $200 Mexican pesos (less than $20 USD) or a 6 glasses’ flight for $100 Mexican pesos (you can then add on top the tour). We only got a 3 courses’ flight (which was $75 Mexican pesos) as I was driving and I really couldn’t drink that much.
The architecture was absolutely lovely, typical of the colonial Mexico I have known and adored. The Hacienda de Letras even has a chapel!
I can’t recommend visiting Hacienda de Letras enough. It was fun, entertaining and something out of the ordinary. And really not expensive nor time consuming, gas included. You do need to check and look closely for the entry to San Luis de Letras, the little community where Hacienda de Letras sits.
Disclosure:I paid for both of our tastings. The owners did not know I blog, nor did we receive any special treatment. As always, I retain full editorial control over everything I publish on my site.
Me giving a talk at Social Media Week Vancouver 2011 on pitching bloggers
A few days ago I noted on my Facebook personal page that I was terribly bored of social media. No offense to anyone I follow or with whom I’m friends with. It just doesn’t have the same appeal to me as it once did. I’m specifically talking about my personal outlets, not the professional ones (which I have religiously maintained up until this point). I have also had zero interest in blogging (although admittedly that has been the case because I am incredibly busy and have no time to blog personal stuff).
I suppose that the best way to get words out is to just get them out, and while some people criticize other bloggers for blogging about blogging, this time I had to blog about NOT blogging. Will I ever resume my regularly scheduled writeups? I seriously doubt it. I don’t have the time to put any effort into my personal blog, although a part of me never gets tired of the idea of blogging. But that’s because I am in love with the idea of having time to blog. I don’t particularly have the time to do so!
One thing that may actually get me to write more and to carve some time to blog is something I commented with my friend Air: I want to continue doing travel writing. My professional activity makes me travel a lot, so therefore I have an incentive to write about the places I travel to. We’ll see how I manage to maintain a professional life while travel writing on the side, on occasion!
I’m obsessed lately with this song, not because of Justin Timberlake, which potentially I could be obsessed with, but because of the melody. Suit & Tie showcases a Justin Timberlake suave and charming. The choreographed middle part of the song is extremely catchy and will probably have the same effect on you as it had on me – I just wanted to start dancing and snapping my fingers.
The Jay-Z influence is completely recognizable and you can tell Timberlake was having a lot of fun with this song. Another reason why I identify with this song. I’m having a lot of fun only blogging when I feel like it and when I want to, not when I feel obligated to. Hope you enjoy the ride along the way.
[Intro: Justin Timberlake]
I be on my suit & tie, shit tied, shit tied
I be on my suit & tie, shit tied, shit
Can I show you a few things?
A few things, a few things, little baby, cause
I be on my suit & tie, shit tied, shit
I be on my suit & tie, shit tied, shit
Let me show you a few things
Let me show you a few things
[Timbaland]
Wait a minute. You ready, JT?
[Verse 1: Justin Timberlake]
I can’t wait ’til I get you on the floor, good looking
Going hot so hot, just like an oven
And owww, burned myself I just had to touch it
But it’s so fire and it’s all mine
Hey baby, we don’t mind all the watching
Cause if they study close, real close, they might learn somethin’
She ain’t nothin’ but a little doozie when she does it
She’s so fire tonight
[Hook: Justin Timberlake]
And as long as I’ve got my suit and tie
I’ma leave it all on the floor tonight
And you got fixed up to the nines
Let me show you a few things
All pressed up in black and white
And you dressed in that dress I like
Love is swinging in the air tonight
Let me show you a few things
Let me show you a few things
Show you a few things about love
Now we’re in the swing of love
Let me show you a few things
Show you a few things about love
Hey
[Verse 2: Justin Timberlake]
Stop
Let me get a good look at it
Oooh so thick, I know why they call it a fatty
And awww, shit’s so sick, got a hit and picked up a habit
But that’s all right, cause you’re all mine
Awww, go on and show ‘em who you call daddy
I guess they’re just mad cause girl they wish they had it
Oooh my killer, my thriller, yeah you’re a classic
And you’re all mine tonight
[Hook: Justin Timberlake]
And as long as I’ve got my suit and tie
I’ma leave it all on the floor tonight
And you got fixed up to the nines
Let me show you a few things
All pressed up in black and white
And you dressed in that dress I like
Love is swinging in the air tonight
Let me show you a few things
Let me show you a few things
Show you a few things about love
Now we’re in the swing of love
Let me show you a few things
Show you a few things about love
Hey
[Justin Timberlake]
Get out your seat Hov
[Verse 3: Jay-Z]
All black at the white shows
White shoes at the black shows
Green card for the Cuban links
Y’all sit back and enjoy the light show
Nothing exceeds like excess
Stoute got gout from having the best of the best
Is this what it’s all about?
I’m at the restaurant, my rant disturbing the guests
Years of distress, tears on the dress
Try to hide her face with some make up sex
This is Truffle season
Tom Ford tuxedos for no reason
All saints for my angel
Alexander Wang too
Ass tight denim and some dunks
I show you how to do this young
No papers, catch vapors
Get high, out Vegas
Dussess on doubles, ain’t looking for trouble
You just got good jeans so a nigga trying to cuff you
Tell your mother that I love her cause I love you
Tell your father we go farther as a couple
They ain’t lose a daughter, got a son
I show you how to do this huh
[Hook: Justin Timberlake]
And as long as I’ve got my suit and tie
I’ma leave it all on the floor tonight
And you got fixed up to the nines
Let me show you a few things
All pressed up in black and white
And you dressed in that dress I like
Love is swinging in the air tonight
Let me show you a few things
Let me show you a few things
Show you a few things about love love-love
Let me show you a few things
Show you a few things about love
As many of you know, I am a proud uncle as well as an educator. So when the Vancouver
International Children’s Festival emailed me to ask for help in spreading the word about their new parenting education series, I could hardly say no. The PEP Talks series (Parenting Educational Program) 2013 speaker series looks really interesting, and knowing how many parents follow me on Twitter and read my blog, I figured I should help spread the word out about PEP Talks 2013 in Vancouver.
The 2013 PEP Talks Series brings an exciting mix of world-class speakers to Vancouver. Four thought-provoking evenings featuring some of the top thinkers on the issues every parent faces today. PEP Talks is bringing to Vancouver four compelling speakers over four consecutive months (March through June 2013) to delve into the challenging and sometimes messy world of parenting today’s millennial child.
Other speakers include Sheryl Feinstein (April 10) “The Adolescent Brain”, Deborah MacNamara (May 15) “The Lost Art of Play: Helping Children Grow Up”, and Lisa Bloom (June 12) “Raising Smart Kids in the New Millenium”
I am giving away a pair of tickets to the PEP series speaker of your choice. The first speaker, slated for March 7th looks like a really fun one, Lenore Skenazy, the author of Free-Range Kids: Why Does an Old-Fashioned Childhood Sound So Radical? You can check a Big Think interview with Lenore Skenazy here:
The media labeled Lenore Skenazy “America’s Worst Mom” when she let her 9-year-old ride the subway alone. She wore the badge with pride and went on to found Free-Range Kids: the book, blog and movement dedicated to the idea that our kids are SAFER and SMARTER than our culture gives them credit for. In this funny lecture (she used to write for Mad Magazine) Lenore discusses how today’s parents became so afraid about everything from predators to non-organic grapes (even if cut into quarters!), and how we can regain the perspective that allows us to trust our kids, our community and our own good-enough parenting.
I know several of my good friends are free-range parents (mine were, at least!). And I predict that there will be interest in attending the PEP Talks. Thus to enter my giveaway, I have (as usual) several modes of entry. The first (comment on this blog), I’d love you to give me your best parenting advice (whatever you’ve heard, if you are a parent, or if you have some wisdom to share with other parents). The following modes of entry include Twitter and Pinterest.
Entry # 1) Comment on this blog with a piece of your best parenting advice.
Entry # 2) Post the following on Twitter:
Share w/ @hummingbird604 a parenting advice tip to enter to win tickets to #ParentingPEPTalks I shared mine here http://is.gd/PE9O0V
As always, I’ll draw a winner from the randomized pool of entries on March 4th, at 2pm. (if you do all 4 you have 4 entries into my contest), and each mode of entry you use I will include in my contest (up to 4). Hopefully you will have a chance to enjoy the PEP Talks!
I was a fan of soft jazz, but my good friend Liz McT was the one who really got me into this kind of music. I recently discovered Sky.fm, an internet-streaming music channel with dozens of fantastic channels. Their Soft Jazz channel was streaming this song (Before Dawn by Joyce Cooling) and I had to write down the name because it feels amazing to write to. Normally, I write listening to classical music as that enables me to focus but this song is fantastic, and thought I’d share.
EDIT – One additional thing that makes Joyce Cooling even cooler is that she supports mental health initiatives. Read from her wikipedia entry:
Although Cooling had been a long-time member of the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), Revolving Door signaled Cooling’s official involvement with NAMI as a national advocate for the organization. Joyce has performed at NAMI national and regional events across the country and Cooling and Wagner donate a portion of the proceeds from the sale of their CDs to NAMI.
Frankly, I love restaurants that serve great food at reasonable prices, and La Estacion definitely is a gem worth visiting next time you are in Aguascalientes (the capital city of the namesake state, Aguascalientes).
Located in the Barrio de la Estacion, close to where the old train station used to be in Aguascalientes, this unassuming (yet large) restaurant is beautifully decorated and offers excellent food and service. It’s the kind of place I am going to bring foreigners and guests from other cities and states for lunch.
I went there with my friend KNG for lunch, as we were both exploring the city (given that I really haven’t still gotten to know much of it). We were promptly seated and our food was served really fast. I ordered meatballs with rice chipotle style (albondigas al chipotle con arroz) and K ordered enchiladas, which were served almost Guanajuato-style (enchiladas mineras). Our lunch combined wasn’t even $30 USD (less than $300 pesos), tip included.
My meat balls were perfectly cooked and the spicy sauce they were covered in wasn’t overwhelming. Flavourful and filling, I could have gone for an additional food item but I was a bit too full.
I love how the decor is typically Mexican and filled with references to things from Aguascalientes. While there isn’t one particular dish that is considered “from” Aguascalientes, La Estacion offers a very broad variety of dishes that are at the same time delicious AND inexpensive. I couldn’t try many of the delicacies because of my braces, but I think that they cook great food as I’ve read other reviews, and from my own experience here. A gourmet restaurant at very reasonable prices, in my view.
I’d definitely recommend a visit to La Estacion for lunch. I still have to come down for dinner and see what else do they have in store for me.
Disclosure: KNG paid for both of our lunches on her own dime. I have no relationship with La Estacion whatsoever, nor did we receive any complimentary food. We just enjoyed our experience, very much.
One of the things I think we can all agree upon is that the 80s gave us fantastic music. One of the tunes I heard in my childhood and it never has left my brain has been “The Glamorous Life” by Sheila E. I would like to think the life I lead is pretty glamorous, even if it involves 16 hour workdays most of the time. Hope you enjoy Sheila E’s rendition of The Glamorous Life as much as I do, with this video of one of her live performances in 1985.
A friendship can weather most things and thrive in thin soil; but it needs a little mulch of letters and phone calls and small, silly presents every so often – just to save it from drying out completely.
– Pam Brown
Photo credit: Carol Browne on Flickr
I have always celebrated Valentine’s Day as the day when I thank my friends for being there. In Mexico, February 14th is celebrated as the Day of Love and Friendship (el Dia del Amor y la Amistad). For me, romantic Valentines were few and far between. Valentine’s Day is always a day when I remember how blessed I am for having the friends I do.
I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for that handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joy. Let’s face it, friends make life a lot more fun.
– Charles R. Swindoll
As time has gone by, I think the thing that made me realize my success online was (as my friend Robert Ballantyne aptly put it, my capacity to show myself vulnerable). I strongly believe this is the case. Much as a few people may see the Hummingbird604 persona as conceited and self-absorbed, the reality is that I am an intensely sensitive man. I don’t let anyone hurt me easily, but the people who can hurt me the easiest are my friends. It takes me a very long while to trust people and call them friends. I don’t overuse the term easily, and that’s why I hate that Facebook calls people “your Facebook friends”, to the point where the meaning of Facebook friend has been translating to “I know you and I need to be connected to you online”. So when a friend betrays my trust, it hurts me deeply.
The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing… not healing, not curing… that is a friend who cares.
– Henri Nouwen
But at the end of the day, I can’t live any other way. I love intensely and thus I suffer intensely. I do what Brene Brown calls “wholehearted living” (although I’ve always done that without knowing that the term was called that – Brown arrives to that definition after doing research on shame and vulnerability). I live without fear of being heartbroken. I’ve been heartbroken once before, and I absolutely thought my life was ending. I felt pain like I had never felt before. In fact, I felt physical pain from so much emotional pain. But I survived, and here I am.
Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.
– George Washington
On Valentine’s Day I celebrate my friends. Those who have stood with me even when they disagreed with my views. Those who have always had my back. Those who can subtly but firmly tell me when I am wrong and why I am wrong. Those who have always time for me, no matter how busy their agendas are.
It’s the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.
– Marlene Dietrich
Happy Valentine’s Day to all of my friends. You know how much I love you.
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”
- Jim Rohn
Explora(a lovely park towards the southern part of Leon, Guanajuato, in central Mexico) is one of those gems that needs to be written about more than once. In this post I’ll only extoll the beauty of the park, because it’s one of the nicest spots in Leon where you can actually go for a walk or a run.
Foro del Lago (Forum of the Lake)
Events such as outdoor concerts, ballet and dance exhibitions, are often held at the Foro del Lago.
I’ve often gone to Explora for a walk with my parents. It’s such a beautiful and peaceful park. Explora has also a science museum, much like Vancouver’s Science World (or TELUS World of Science, if you want).
Explora has 5 science halls (Salas). Obviously, the Sala del Agua (Water Hall) is my absolute favoritest, although there are a number of other halls that are intended to impart knowledge on visitors. Explora hires high school or undergraduate students to work providing smart commentary on each one of the apparatuses shown in each one of the halls.
I had my faith renewed in Mexican youth when I visited Explora, Museo de Ciencias (Explora, Science Museum) because every single kid who worked there was very well versed in the scientific facts that they were supposed to share with their audience.
Admission to Explora isn’t all that expensive (I think I paid $60 pesos, about $4.50 USD for myself and for my Mom).
There’s also a number of transportation exhibitions in the outskirts of the museum. These include a helicopter and an aircraft.
Overall, I would strongly recommend that people come visit Explora. It’s totally woorth the visit, particularly for parents with children.
Disclosure: I paid for both my Mom and my own entry fee out of my own pocket. I have no financial nor otherwise ties to Explora. I just wanted to share my experience with my readers and potential visitors to Guanajuato.
I have written before about January 6th, Epiphany or the Day of the 3 Wise Men (or 3 Magician Kings, as we call them in Mexico), and I have shared how we eat Rosca de Reyes (a large, elliptical-shaped bread that is eaten communally to celebrate when the 3 Wise Men came to Bethlehem to visit newly-born Jesus Christ. Those who cut a piece of the Rosca de Reyes and find a little plastic child (a representation of Jesus himself) is supposed to throw a party on the anniversary of the presentation of Jesus to the temple (Dia de la Candelaria, February 2nd). At this party, tamales usually are usually consumed.
Photo credit: Katie Schumm on Flickr
Today is Dia de la Candelaria, but unfortunately none of the people I know who got the little plastic child actually are having a party. Which is too bad, because I wanted tamales!
You can call me an old man, but I do recognize The Police when I hear it. This song (Locked Out of Heaven) by Bruno Mars has a number of chords that sound pretty much like “Don’t Stand So Close To Me” by The Police. I didn’t know who sang it or what the name was, but Dr. Matthew Hayday told me the name via Twitter (thanks, Matt!). For your listening pleasure (and I hope you enjoy it as much as I do).
And yes, as indicated on the Wikipedia entry, it does have the vibe of The Romantics’ Talking in Your Sleep. I can’t find anything Roxanne-ish (as the entry says) but I definitely can see Talking In Your Sleep, and The Police’s Don’t Stand So Close To Me. Awesome song nonetheless.
My parents have always loved that I use the hummingbird as a metaphor for my many interests and projects. I fly from flower to flower, from project A to project B, and in the process, I exert so much energy that I exhaust myself. But luckily, every month, I take some time to take stock and reflect on how my life is going and what projects I’m working on and how will I move forward. I also take time towards the end of the year to work on a Manifesto. I establish the ground rules for what I will be doing in the coming year. 2012 was a year of enormous change for me, and I have grown so much, in so many different aspects of my life.
This is what Raul’s Manifesto has looked like in the past 3 years:
In 2013, my Manifesto and my promise to myself is that I will maintain focus. I will not deviate from my goals and objectives. You may think “well, didn’t you get back to personal blogging just now? Isn’t that going to deviate you from your objectives?”. No, in fact no. My blog was first and foremost a diary where I noted my thoughts. A diary that grew so powerful and broadly read that it became a tool to help people, whenever I could. But it’s still mine, and it’s still my notebook, where I jot down whatever I am learning along the way, so it helps me in documenting the growth process.
I know the prize, I have an objective, and all I need to do is keep laser-focus. And I hope you, my dear readers (and social media followers) will hold me accountable and tell me when you think I’m spreading too think and forgetting the focus I promised to maintain.
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