On being self-promotional in social media
When I began writing my blog (almost four years ago), I wasn’t on Twitter (I can’t even recall if it existed), I didn’t really know much about the Vancouver social media/PR/tech scene, I was pretty much unknown. I blogged because I liked it. I wanted to share my thoughts with the world, for whoever in that world wanted to read them. I really didn’t care much whether I had a small or large readership. I blogged without looking at my stats, I knew that only 3 people read my blog (in April 2006). That number, right now, is much larger. And, admittedly, I do promote my posts on Twitter. I publish them to Twitter (using WordTwit).
Often times (particularly with contests and ticket/freebie giveaways) I will tweet about them over and over (I do try to promote them on different occasions, at varying times of the day and week). If it’s a post that relates to a cause of mine (like those where I reference Mental Health Camp), I’ll also tweet about them several times in a week.
Or if I think the content of my post is valuable, or if I’m doing a review of an event, or something. That’s usually when I repeat the same blog post over and over. If I need feedback from my readers, I’ll re-tweet it to no end until I get enough comments on a post that I feel confident I don’t need more commentary.
Today, I tweeted asking about when did “informing people about something I did” become “self-promotion“. I really asked with the intention to make sure that I didn’t sound too self-promote-y. Why? Because, really, I don’t *need* to promote myself. I feel incredibly successful as I am (here I go again with the lack of humility – ooops) right now. And I’ve previously written that it’s not always “all about me” (although I’m very self-deprecating and often times, I write that it *is* all about me, and that I rule).
My friends Jen and Derek responded to my question with equal candor, and I think (and Jen agrees) that Derek put it best. I appreciated Jen’s honesty in reminding me that sometimes, humility is not my best quality (I do try, though!).
But Derek’s description is a beauty, and it’s the rule I plan to live by. Thanks Derek. No wonder you’re a PenMachine. You DO have a way with words.
I do plan to keep promoting my stuff only inasmuch it serves and helps my readers and Twitter followers. I don’t actually think I need to promote myself that much. And I hope that people will call me on it (within reason and with tact) if I ever become too self-promote-y. Although, as my friend Jo Van Every says, some people will say that any promote-y will be “too self-promote-y”. So, if that’s the case, I’ll ignore those
Related posts:
- On self-promotion and my role in the social media ecosystem
- My recent Social Media Club Victoria talk: “Towards an Action-Focused Agenda for Social Change Using Social Media” (#smcvictoria) @smcvictoria
- On being jaded with social media for social change
- Canadian social media and social computing data/statistics
- On the relationship between mainsteam media, social media and academia 1: Mainstream media and social media’s complex relationship





As I mentioned to Raul in person last night, the NEED is the key thing that makes anything self-promotional seem a bit off.
It’s the difference between a salesperson who’s on commission and one who isn’t; or someone who send out tweets or emails or blog posts that are obviously trying to drum up business rather than simply inform; or, starkly, between spam and actual useful reading material.
When you can detect an air of desperation in someone’s communication, it’s too far over the line into self-promotion. There are people who turn self-promotion into their whole schtick (see Chris Pirillo or John Chow), but doing that successfully is rare—and sometimes they get into trouble with it as well.
I have just started a new business and just started on twitter. I feel totally self promotional which is against my basic nature and makes me feel uncomfortable, but I NEED to be (promotional that is) because that will be the difference in me being successful or not!
So from what I can see it is fine line that I teeter (tweeter?) on constantly.
If I do cross the line, then yes I agree with hummingbird, I hope somebody will gently call me out!