On being self-promotional in social media

it's all about RaulWhen I began writing my blog (almost four years ago), I wasn’t on Twitter (I can’t even recall if it existed), I didn’t really know much about the Vancouver social media/PR/tech scene, I was pretty much unknown. I blogged because I liked it. I wanted to share my thoughts with the world, for whoever in that world wanted to read them. I really didn’t care much whether I had a small or large readership. I blogged without looking at my stats, I knew that only 3 people read my blog (in April 2006). That number, right now, is much larger. And, admittedly, I do promote my posts on Twitter. I publish them to Twitter (using WordTwit).

Often times (particularly with contests and ticket/freebie giveaways) I will tweet about them over and over (I do try to promote them on different occasions, at varying times of the day and week). If it’s a post that relates to a cause of mine (like those where I reference Mental Health Camp), I’ll also tweet about them several times in a week.

Or if I think the content of my post is valuable, or if I’m doing a review of an event, or something. That’s usually when I repeat the same blog post over and over. If I need feedback from my readers, I’ll re-tweet it to no end until I get enough comments on a post that I feel confident I don’t need more commentary.

Today, I tweeted asking about when did “informing people about something I did” become “self-promotion“. I really asked with the intention to make sure that I didn’t sound too self-promote-y. Why? Because, really, I don’t *need* to promote myself. I feel incredibly successful as I am (here I go again with the lack of humility – ooops) right now. And I’ve previously written that it’s not always “all about me” (although I’m very self-deprecating and often times, I write that it *is* all about me, and that I rule).

My friends Jen and Derek responded to my question with equal candor, and I think (and Jen agrees) that Derek put it best. I appreciated Jen’s honesty in reminding me that sometimes, humility is not my best quality (I do try, though!).

jen about humility

But Derek’s description is a beauty, and it’s the rule I plan to live by. Thanks Derek. No wonder you’re a PenMachine. You DO have a way with words.

derek on self-servingness

I do plan to keep promoting my stuff only inasmuch it serves and helps my readers and Twitter followers. I don’t actually think I need to promote myself that much. And I hope that people will call me on it (within reason and with tact) if I ever become too self-promote-y. Although, as my friend Jo Van Every says, some people will say that any promote-y will be “too self-promote-y”. So, if that’s the case, I’ll ignore those :)

Related posts:

  1. On self-promotion and my role in the social media ecosystem
  2. My recent Social Media Club Victoria talk: “Towards an Action-Focused Agenda for Social Change Using Social Media” (#smcvictoria) @smcvictoria
  3. On being jaded with social media for social change
  4. Canadian social media and social computing data/statistics
  5. On the relationship between mainsteam media, social media and academia 1: Mainstream media and social media’s complex relationship

Comments (2)

Derek K. MillerMarch 6th, 2010 at 3:01 pm

As I mentioned to Raul in person last night, the NEED is the key thing that makes anything self-promotional seem a bit off.

It’s the difference between a salesperson who’s on commission and one who isn’t; or someone who send out tweets or emails or blog posts that are obviously trying to drum up business rather than simply inform; or, starkly, between spam and actual useful reading material.

When you can detect an air of desperation in someone’s communication, it’s too far over the line into self-promotion. There are people who turn self-promotion into their whole schtick (see Chris Pirillo or John Chow), but doing that successfully is rare—and sometimes they get into trouble with it as well.

Kathy PettigrewMarch 7th, 2010 at 9:05 am

I have just started a new business and just started on twitter. I feel totally self promotional which is against my basic nature and makes me feel uncomfortable, but I NEED to be (promotional that is) because that will be the difference in me being successful or not!

So from what I can see it is fine line that I teeter (tweeter?) on constantly.
If I do cross the line, then yes I agree with hummingbird, I hope somebody will gently call me out!

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